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How to message a death doula on the website

Write to a doula from their profile with a few words about your situation. No account and no fee, and they reply to you directly. Shown on the Death Doula Directory website on a computer.
Quick answer: Found a doula you'd like to talk to? You can message them directly. On their profile, scroll down to the message box and tell them a little about your situation.
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    Found a doula you'd like to talk to? You can message them directly.
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    On their profile, scroll down to the message box and tell them a little about your situation.
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    Add your email or phone so they can reply. There's no account and no fee.
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    The doula gets your message right away and replies to you directly.
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    Search Death Doula Directory on the App Store or Google Play, or visit deathdouladirectory.com.

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